This initial flash of energy is needed to be put in conceiving children, instead of being put into your selfish use while you take contraceptive pills. But because up to this day not many realized it, trying to postpone conception and lay it on a shelf, often children don’t come into the world (cause of the gained infertility) or are born unhealthy. It is important to understand that children derive the highest level of energy when their parents are at the beginning of sexual relationship in other words when the energy hasn’t been wasted yet.
Most people think that love must be the reason to start relationship and make a family. They consider that first they need to have a feeling of true love to someone and only then they can start a family. Without even realizing it, people are often sure that true feeling of love in this world is “for free” and comes itself, without any effort on their part. That is the biggest misconception. That’s how karma hooks a man. Infatuation can come “for free”, but not true love. This life is destined to make us learn to love unconditionally.
That is why true feeling of love can’t “fall out of the sky” in the beginning of new relationship. It would be too easy and we wouldn’t get necessary karmic lessons, which by the way we chose as souls for our education in this temporary world. Of course not all of us remember that, but that’s a fact. “Grandma” karma is not that simple and naive as we think… We are more likely to be naive in our self-assurance and desire to get true love “for free” just after meeting the “soulmate”.
Currently people usually break off their relationship at the sight of first difficulties. And they justify it with the fact that their “warm feelings are gone”… When in fact there weren’t any. There was just sexual interest and desire to consume for one’s satisfaction – these are animal instincts, not warm human feelings. For all that people are usually sure that it was a “wrong person”. If we want to be happy in our personal life, it is really important to understand that there is naturally no such thing as “wrong person”.
No one finds a soulmate himself, voluntarily and not a single meeting in his world is accidental or vain. Unlike us, nature and “grandma” karma are never wrong. With a consummate accuracy this "merry couple" chooses the best "coach" for the development of our true inner humility, ability to serve selflessly and give into love. But we are far from being thankful disciples and sometimes even try to “run off from classes”. But we don’t realize it is impossible. It is important to understand that we meet the person who is best for teaching us love unconditionally. Yes, it’s very hard to believe in it but that’s a fact.